Listen to #Hashtag Hong Kong every Sunday morning at 8.15
Focussing on issues affecting civil society, we'll hear from representatives of NGOs, associations, statutory bodies, and non-profit groups.
(Sundays 8.15am - 8.25am)
In Hong Kong, the issue of sexual violence is frequently overlooked and inadequately discussed. A 2021 local survey revealed that 1-in-3 women has experienced some form of sexual violence in their lifetime. This indifference to the alarming prevalence of sexual violence fosters an environment where victim-survivors struggle to find the support they desperately need. Many encounter a culture of disbelief, stigma, and victim-blaming, which causes further trauma. As a result, individuals often hesitate to report incidents, fearing they will not be taken seriously or doubting that justice can be achieved through the legal system. It often took immense courage for sexual violence victim-survivors to come forward and disclose their experiences. Many stood up not only for themselves, but also to ensure that others do not have to suffer the same fate. Yet, time and again, our criminal justice system fails these courageous women, leaving them feeling betrayed and unheard in their quest for justice.
Many of Hong Kong’s sexual offences are based on legislation from the 1970s, which in turn was based on even earlier English laws. The definition of rape, for example, remains narrowly defined as non-consensual penile-vaginal penetration, reflecting outdated understandings of sexual violence. Even the English sexual offences have seen a major overhaul in the early 2000s. Hong Kong’s ancient legal framework fails to adequately protect victim-survivors and creates significant barriers to justice. The latest 5-year review of service data from RainLily, reveals a staggering statistic: in the sexual violence crisis centre’s known result, for every 100 cases reported to the police, only 6 have seen the accused convicted in the first trial. These numbers starkly illustrate the inadequacy of our legal system in delivering justice for victim-survivors and holding perpetrators accountable for their actions.
A particularly outdated and problematic aspect of Hong Kong’s sexual offenses is the defence of “genuine but mistaken belief,” which absurdly permits the perpetrator's subjective belief to override the victim's consent, even when that belief is clearly unreasonable. This led to victim-blaming and abusive questioning in the courtroom which reinforces harmful stereotypes about sexual violence. The lack of resistance, victim’s clothing and behaviour, relationship context etc are often intentionally misinterpreted by the defence counsel as sending a “mixed signal” to the accused which led to so-called “misunderstanding”. The persistence of the use of rape myths as grounds for acquittal is both frustrating and profoundly unjust.
The experiences of victim-survivors highlight the urgent need for a clearer understanding of consent within the legal framework, as recommended by the Law Reform Commission in 2019. In the past and within the current context of Hong Kong’s courts, the concept of consent has often been seen as a door that is always open. It was the victim’s responsibility to demonstrated they had said ‘no’ vigorously to prevent sexual assault from happening. This outdated and harmful perspective places the burden on the victim and perpetuates a culture where sexual violence can thrive. Far too often, victims are asked to explain why they were victimized, while the perpetrators escape accountability for their actions, as if it were a matter of course. This must change. Instead of placing the burden on victims to justify their experiences, we must hold perpetrators accountable for their actions. Shame must change side.
In today’s evolving cultural context, there is a growing recognition that consent is not a passive state but an active and ongoing process. We are shifting to an understanding of consent as a door that is always closed. It is the responsibility of the person initiating sexual activity to “knock” and obtain clear and affirmative consent before proceeding. This means actively seeking a clear and enthusiastic “yes” and ensuring that consent is freely and voluntarily given.
Since the Law Reform Commission conducted its consultation on ‘rape and other non-consensual sexual offences’ 13 years ago, many places have moved further to advance protection for victims in the goal of encouraging reporting and reducing the traumatisation and rape myths that swim through the criminal justice system. In Australia, multiple jurisdictions have implemented that any belief in consent will not be reasonable if the accused did not say or do anything to ascertain consent. This shift in focus from the victim’s actions or inactions to the defendant’s behaviour is crucial in ensuring that consent cannot be assumed.
Good morning, Hashtag HK.
As a mother of three, my husband and I have been blessed with our 6-year-old daughter Naima, and our 11-year-old twins, Ava, who is neurotypical, and Jacob, who has Down Syndrome. Throughout our parenting journey in Hong Kong, we've encountered various challenges—ranging from Jacob's prenatal diagnosis and the need for sensitive, comprehensive information about Down syndrome, to accessing essential health and developmental resources.
The start of our journey wasn’t ideal. our doctor in the public sector at that time lacked the bedside manner and the training to sensitively discuss her findings of our 20-week scan, so instead she chose to go through her findings in silence, which unfortunately created a huge sense of unease and nervousness as first-time parents. What should have been a momentous and memorable visit ended up being a confused and daunting encounter where we were left with many questions unanswered and were instead given a bunch of leaflets on Down syndrome to go home and read.
We gathered information from a range of diverse sources, such as parent blogs and Down syndrome charities. The challenge of organizing this wealth of information inspired me to create A Little Bit Extra: a centralized resource platform dedicated to providing the latest information, fostering connections, and offering support for the Down syndrome community.
One of our goals at ALBE is to work with maternity units within public hospitals to ensure expectant and new parents have access to ongoing support and contemporary accurate information regarding Down syndrome. We aim to provide training and resources to health care practitioners to ensure they understand the lived experience of having Down syndrome and realise the importance of their language and attitudes when speaking of Down syndrome.
There appears to be a real lack of understanding Down syndrome as an individual condition as it is often grouped under a general disability. This then leads to a lack of awareness as to what it truly means to be born with this condition and how to fully support those with down syndrome medically, within the educational arena and within the job market.
A huge emphasis is placed on early intervention for any child that has an additional need, however often parents are left to fend for themselves once their child reaches school age, as there is a real lack of inclusive activities available for our children and in particular as our children grow to become teenagers and young adults many are left to feel quite alone and isolated.
During Jacob’s early years we were provided with fortnightly occupational therapy, speech therapy and PT (physical therapy) sessions which were an absolute godsend as it helped to alleviate the financial pressures of the private therapy sessions we were giving him. However, after two years these were ceased which is frustrating as both occupational therapy and speech therapy are essential for Jacob’s development and something he will require until he’s an adult. The monthly expense of therapies is a significant financial burden for many parents.
There is estimated to be 3000 individuals with Down syndrome in Hong Kong and it will be our mission to seek out our friends and their families within our community to ensure they are able connect, engage with others and feel supported within our community.
Our biggest support has been the family network here in HK. When Jacob was born and was admitted to Queen Mary Hospital we were appointed a social worker who then put us in touch with the Hong Kong Down Syndrome Association who in turn connected us with a number of families here in HK which was invaluable for us at the time and we have built and maintained some beautiful friendships. This support and connection is something that we will continue to nurture through A Little Bit Extra.
To enhance the support for individuals with Down Syndrome in Hong Kong, we request the support of the government in the following key areas:
● Enhance Education and Training: Implement comprehensive education and training programs in hospitals so healthcare professionals can deliver diagnoses sensitively, using language that is both respectful and non-discriminatory during scans and upon delivery.
● Expand Therapy Support: Increase subsidies for therapy sessions, particularly for children aged 5 to 11, ensuring they receive essential support beyond early childhood to foster their development and integration.
● Promote Awareness and Acceptance: Officially recognize Down Syndrome as a distinct condition to elevate awareness and acceptance. This initiative will educate healthcare professionals, school educators, and corporations, encouraging inclusive employment practices.
● Alleviate Caregiver Concerns: Address the longstanding worry of caregivers regarding the future of their children by providing structured support systems, ensuring a secure and supportive environment for individuals with Down Syndrome as they transition into adulthood.
March 21 is World Down Syndrome Day. Please wear bright and bold coloured socks on this day to raise awareness and let us work together to build an inclusive and supportive community for individuals with Down Syndrome and their families.
16/03/2025 - Abi Tannis Porter, founder of the charity A Little Bit Extra